be yourself

The day when you were born, when you were crying coming to this world, we were an individual object. Once you were out, your umbilical cord was to be cut. Hence, you supposed to be living on your own. The love, care, and adoration from your parents were just an additional part they gave by volunteering. It was not a must to them.

We live for ourself. As long as im not doing things that hurt others or myself, just go ahead. Even it may cause a bad outcome but you are the one to accept it, to face it, and to overcome it. Nobody helps you when you are in trouble and lots of people come to you when you have everything.

Hence, why we need care for others? Of coz im not mentioning bout your concern to others. It is different from what im discussing here. There are many people that giving an excuse such as to take care others feeling just to cover what he/she had did. Shit talk!!! Even though others will mind, then will you stop it forever? Every human will have their own circle of friends or family linking. They are all related. Strictly speaking, whatever you do, there must be affecting others. However it depends how you handle it, and how you treat the case. If you are so stubborn then yourself will be no improvement. Not because of you lazy, but you are restricted by others opinion.

The lesson of mine is- go ahead with your thinking. Others opinion is just a reference but not a restriction. Weigh the advantages and disadvantages and make your own decision!!!!